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This Work is Hard
This work can be frustrating. Whether you're a parent, a caseworker, a program director, or a mentor - working with complex trauma is...
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Feb 16, 20221 min read
Never Got a Chance to be a Kid
Many of the kids we work with learned to put their needs last. They are what the clinical world calls "parentified" meaning they had to...
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Dec 8, 20212 min read
Don't take away the barn
At Stable Moments we understand that parents are doing their best. We get the struggle of trying to make the right decisions for our...
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Sep 21, 20211 min read
Why Horses?
Most of us can attest to the fact that animals are healing in nature. Lots of people, who hear about Stable Moments, mention how...
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Aug 13, 20212 min read
What Paper Towels Taught Me About Trauma
I used to work with a guy who would, after washing them, shake his hands off in the sink and then wipe them on his pants. I didn’t think...
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Aug 10, 20211 min read
Being a Safe Person
Children need to feel safe before they can do anything else. Here's an exercise to be a safe person.
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Apr 21, 20213 min read
Dealing with Lying
One behavioral response to childhood trauma is lying. Many foster and adoptive parents report lying as being a major problem with their...
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Mar 15, 20213 min read
Getting Clear on Your Calling
How many times have you associated your calling with your career? That's okay, we all have. We are conditioned to. Our society focuses so...
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Aug 21, 20202 min read
Now More Than Ever
Schools being open is imperative for our country's vulnerable youth. Roughly 5 million children in the USA experience domestic violence...
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Jul 21, 20202 min read
Everyone Gets an A
That's right, every single person that walks onto a Stable Moments property gets an A and guess what, they can't lose their A. It doesn't...
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Mar 30, 20203 min read
Staying "Relationship First" in Isolation
A foster or adopted child may VERY well be wondering "what does this mean for me?" Speak directly to that.
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Jan 5, 20203 min read
Why We Don't Pray for Them
I have had several child mentors ask over the years, Can I pray for the child I mentor. My answer is yes, but not here at the barn.
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Dec 15, 20193 min read
Trauma Informed Holiday Activities
It's not about the things for these kids. It's that you value them, ask them, get creative with them, become part of their journey.
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Nov 4, 20192 min read
Removed
Children in foster care most often have been removed not just from a home but from the only parents they know
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May 1, 20193 min read
Why Can't I Ride?
That's right, there is no riding. I am so immersed in the Stable Moments model that I often forget to mention it is all unmounted work....
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Jan 23, 20192 min read
Why Mentorship?
Many people look at the Stable Moments model and think that it must be the amazingly therapeutic nature of a horse that brings stability...
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Dec 17, 20183 min read
For some, Holidays aren't Happy
I know... what a downer. We're all decking the stalls, and fa la la-ing and Rebecca has to come out with the sad truth. One Christmas I...
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Sep 17, 20182 min read
Maybe I'm Not Cut Out for This
I felt shame today. I recently started a Masters program online and have been a bit overwhelmed trying to organize the different...
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Oct 25, 20172 min read
Shame: The Crippling Beast
As James walked through the halls of his new school he searched for room 306. He was intimidated by the confidence the other students...
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Aug 31, 20173 min read
5 Ways to Ease School Transition for Children in Foster Care
Updated: Aug. 10 2021 Children in foster care have to manage more transitions than any child should have to. They often change homes,...
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